the real dating game

there is no host in my dating game. there are no defined rules, no parameters to follow, no example to learn from, just blindfolds and land minds! I don't know how to do this. What the fuck are the rules? How honest should I be? How can I tell if he is not interested, or just fucking busy? This is driving me crazy, all text and sex and not enough talk!! What happened to talking on the fucking phone to make plans. fuck me, i hate this.